Dealing with Hornet's Nest - The unpleasant situation.

Feeling glad by publishing this article to overcome disempowering feeling for self and effectively to deal with hornet's nest rebuilding confidence and self value.  

Many a times  you have to come across circumstances when and where not at all any another but you are the only one who is doubting your own confidence and self esteem as well. If the same situation is triggered couple of times then it may distort your image in your own mind demolishing your confidence too and this way it becomes an anchor in your mind. When ever the same kind of situation is occurred mind starts working as per anchored program. Situation comes when you have no confidence, mind will automatically kill your self-image. When self-image is doubted, mind will start killing confidence and vice versa. This influences your personality and people stop trusting you anymore as you have lost your confidence.

If you are to face confidence problem, here we go with some points that can be used to deal with harnet's nest and to come out of the situation as well.

1. Start observing the situation and environment in your life when you feel confident and comfortable.
2. Notice the moment when you feel proud on you and value your self.
3. Be aware and conscious about the situation and place you start feeling nervous, low confident and add no values to your life.  
4. Observe where and when you disassociate your self from taking decisions and include your self to take decision.
5. Keep presence of mind when and where you require to be full of confidence.
6. Ask to your self whether you own disempowering belief about yourself or not.
7. Ask to your self if you are concerned about what people will think of you.

These are some of the points that can help you check your own state of comfort or confidence with people. Having a confidence and high self esteem in required situations depends upon the images that you hold in your subconscious mind. In case you want to be confident and comfortable all the time in a smooth way, you need to reprogram your mind. In the upcoming volume we are discussing on the same topic something more beyond your imagination. Are you ready?

Yours;
Riddhesh Shukla